The correct spelling of the phrase "wast of family" should be "waste of family." The word "waste" is pronounced with the IPA transcription /weɪst/, with the vowel sound of "ay" as in "day" and the final consonant blend of "st" as in "post." This refers to something that is unused or thrown away. The phrase "waste of family" would mean that something has resulted in the squandering or misuse of a family, implying a negative connotation towards the actions taken.