Toady is spelled "tow-dee" and is pronounced /ˈtəʊdi/. The word comes from the noun "toad" and the suffix "y". The origin comes from the idea that a toady would behave like a toad, which is known for its unattractive and servile behavior. It is a derogatory term for someone who flatters and serves another in the hopes of personal gain or advantage. The spelling and pronunciation of the word have remained unchanged since its first recorded use in the 17th century.
Toady is a noun that refers to a person who behaves in a servile and sycophantic manner towards someone in power or authority, often with the intention of gaining favor or advantages for themselves. The term can also be used as a verb, meaning to behave in such a manner or to flatter and fawn upon someone in a subservient and obsequious way.
A toady is commonly seen as someone who excessively praises and ingratiates themselves to their superior, often at the expense of their own dignity or integrity. They tend to go to great lengths to fulfill the wishes and whims of those in positions of authority, with little regard for their own opinions or values. Toadyism is typically driven by the desire for personal gain, such as obtaining promotions, rewards, or protection from the person they are obsequiously catering to.
This term carries negative connotations and implies a lack of authenticity and independence on the part of the toady. It suggests a willingness to sacrifice one's principles and self-respect for personal benefit, leading to perceptions of opportunism and dishonesty. Toadying behavior is often seen as insincere, as it is driven by ulterior motives rather than genuine admiration or respect. Overall, a toady is characterized by an excessive, insincere display of flattery and subservience, manipulating their way into someone's favor.
• A sycoplant; a mean flatterer or hanger-on.
• To fawn upon with servile flattery; to display obsequiousness towards.
Etymological and pronouncing dictionary of the English language. By Stormonth, James, Phelp, P. H. Published 1874.
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The word "toady" derives from the 17th-century verb "toad-eat", which was a compound of "toad" and "eat". The verb was used to describe the action of a toad supposedly eating, and was associated with a German superstition that toads could swell themselves to the size of an ox and then burst. This imagery was adapted figuratively to refer to someone who flatters and ingratiates themselves excessively to gain favor or advantage. Over time, the verb "toad-eat" evolved into the noun "toady" to describe a sycophantic person who behaves in a subservient manner to please others.