Pronunciation: [ɹˈuːdəɹi] (IPA) 
The word "rudery" is spelled with a "u" instead of the more common "o" in "rudeness". It is pronounced as /ˈruːdəri/ and is derived from the Old French word "rude" which means "rough or impolite". The "u" in the word is placed between the "d" and "e" to maintain the pronunciation of the first syllable as "rood" instead of "rud". Despite its unusual spelling, "rudery" is still accepted as a valid term for impolite or uncivil behavior.
Rudery is a noun that refers to the quality or state of being rude or impolite. It describes behavior or language that lacks the expected social norms or displays a lack of consideration or respect for others. This term encompasses a broad range of actions, comments, or attitudes that are offensive, disrespectful, or ill-mannered.
Rudery often involves behaving in a manner that is disrespectful towards others or disregards their feelings or boundaries. It can manifest through impolite or offensive remarks, insensitive jokes, or intentional actions designed to provoke or hurt others. It disregards fundamental principles of etiquette, politeness, and common courtesy that govern social interactions.
Individuals exhibiting rudery may display a lack of tact, empathy, or understanding towards others, often failing to consider the potential consequences of their words or actions. The term can also be applied to situations or environments that are characterized by a general atmosphere of disrespect or offensiveness.
It is important to distinguish rudery from honest mistakes or unintentional misunderstandings, as rudery typically involves knowingly engaging in behavior that is socially unacceptable or deliberately disregarding social norms. Rudery negates the principles of politeness and empathy that form the foundation of harmonious social relationships, and thus it is generally frowned upon in social contexts.
