"Lord it over someone" is an idiom that means to boss or dominate someone. The pronunciation of "lord it over someone" can be transcribed using IPA phonetic symbols as /lɔːd ɪt ˈəʊvə sʌmwʌn/. The "o" in "lord" is pronounced as a long "oh" sound, and the "r" is not silent. The "it" is pronounced with a short "i" sound, and the stress falls on the second syllable. The "over" is pronounced with a long "oh" sound and the "e" at the end is silent.
To "lord it over someone" means to assert or exercise one's authority or superiority over others in a displeasing or domineering manner. The expression derives from the concept of a lord or master who controls or dominates those who are in a subordinate position.
When someone "lords it over" others, they tend to act in an overbearing or arrogant manner, using their power or position to control others, often showing little regard for their feelings or opinions. It implies a superiority complex, where the individual believes they are unquestionably in charge and deserving of deference. This behavior may manifest in various ways, such as incessantly giving orders, intentionally demeaning or belittling others, or limiting others' autonomy.
"Lording it over someone" is often associated with abusive or oppressive behavior, as it involves exploiting power imbalances to intimidate or dominate others. The phrase conveys a sense of disdain, emphasizing the negative impact on the individuals being subjected to such treatment. Perspectives of equality and respect are disregarded, and instead, the person doing the "lording" seeks to maintain their dominance and control over others.
Usage of this phrase typically describes situations where one person takes advantage of his or her authority over others and uses it in a way that may be disproportionate, mean-spirited, or disrespectful. It suggests an abuse of power and highlights the need for fair and equitable interactions among individuals.