Kibitzers is a word commonly used to describe those who offer unsolicited advice or commentary on a situation they are not involved in. The phonetic transcription of this word is /ˈkɪbɪtsərz/, with stress on the second syllable. The "k" sound at the beginning of the word is followed by a short "i" sound and a "b" sound. The word ends with a "z" sound and a schwa sound. Despite its Yiddish origin, kibitzers has been adopted into modern English vocabulary with this spelling.
Kibitzers refer to individuals who engage in unsolicited and often unwanted advice, comments, or opinions, particularly when it comes to the actions or decisions of others, especially during a game or event. The term is commonly encountered in the context of card games, sports competitions, or similar situations where individuals who are not directly involved in the proceedings take it upon themselves to interject with their thoughts or observations.
Kibitzers can be seen as disruptive or intrusive, as they tend to distract or influence the participants in a biased or unwanted manner. They often display a tendency to express their views assertively, irrespective of whether they have been requested or welcomed. Kibitzers may possess varying degrees of experience or knowledge about the subject matter, but their comments are frequently unsolicited or unwarranted. They may also exhibit a sense of superiority or confidence in their own judgment, believing they know better than the individuals involved in the activity.
While the term is most commonly associated with casual observers of games or sports matches, 'kibitzers' does not solely pertain to these contexts. It can also encompass those who persistently offer their unsolicited opinions or advice in any social or professional setting. Kibitzers often face resistance or irritation from those they target, as their intrusions can disrupt concentration, create unnecessary conflicts, or impede the decision-making process. Overall, the term 'kibitzers' describes individuals who encroach on others' affairs uninvited, with the intent of expressing their own views, regardless of the impact or consequences.
The word "kibitzers" comes from Yiddish, a language spoken by Ashkenazi Jews. In Yiddish, the word is "kibitzer" (קיביצער) which means someone who offers unsolicited advice, criticism, or commentary, particularly in card games. The term was originally used in the context of casual spectators who would give advice to players in games such as chess or poker. Over time, it has been adapted into English and expanded to refer to anyone who offers unwanted advice or provides commentary in various situations.