The phrase "grinned bear it" is spelled with the IPA phonetic transcription [ɡrɪnd bɛr ɪt]. The first word, "grinned," is spelled with a double "n" to indicate the elongated pronunciation of the sound /n/, which is produced by the lips and the back of the tongue. The phrase continues with "bear it," with "bear" spelled with the sound /bɛr/, which is made by vibrating the vocal cords while the lips are closed and then releasing them. The final word "it" uses the sound /ɪt/, produced with the tongue raised towards the roof of the mouth.
"Grinned and bear it" is an idiomatic expression that means to tolerate, endure, or put up with a difficult or unpleasant situation with a smile, despite feeling discomfort, frustration, or annoyance. The phrase suggests a person's ability to maintain a positive attitude or façade in the midst of adversity or hardship.
The term originated from the combination of two separate idioms: "grin and bear it" and "grin and bide/bear it." "Grin and bear it" means to endure a difficult situation without complaint, often with a forced or fake smile, emphasizing one's ability to face challenges stoically. On the other hand, "grin and bide/bear it" refers to the act of remaining patient or accepting a situation while waiting for it to improve or change.
"Grinned and bear it" is an amalgamation of these two phrases, encapsulating the idea of putting on a smiling face while dealing with adversity. It implies that even though one may be experiencing discomfort or displeasure, they choose to maintain a positive outlook or suppress their true emotions for various reasons such as avoiding conflict, maintaining professionalism, or simply to keep a sense of optimism.
This expression is commonly used to describe situations where individuals find themselves having to endure ongoing challenges or inconveniences with a smile, even though they may strongly desire a different outcome or may be inwardly struggling. It symbolizes the resilience and strength of individuals who choose to persevere and remain optimistic despite unfavorable circumstances.