The spelling of the phrase "am of the family" can be explained using IPA phonetic transcription. The /a/ sound is represented by the letter "a" and the /m/ sound is represented by the letter "m". The /ɒ/ sound, which is similar to the "o" sound in "not", is represented by the letters "of". The /ði/ sound, which is similar to the "the" sound, is represented by the letters "the". The /ˈfæm.ə.lɪ/ sound is represented by the letters "family", with the stress on the first syllable.